How to Get a Man to Marry
Once a relationship hits a certain point, you may start to question where it's headed. If you wish to get married, but meet up with resistance from your partner, you'll want to figure out ways to get a man to marry.
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Instructions
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Stay positive and don't focus on marriage. If you're happy with yourself and not marriage obsessed, your man will pick up on this and feel drawn to you.
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Drop hints without being obvious. Men absolutely hate the idea of a woman pushing them into marriage. You need to learn to hint about marriage without forcing the subject. Mention marriage casually without dragging him to the jewelry store and pointing out rings that you like.
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Hang out with happily married couples. Many men have reservations about marriage because they are fearful about getting a divorce. Calm this fear by spending time with people in strong marriages.
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Let your man know your life goals. The man in your life may not know that you want to eventually marry. Talk about your goals to see how he feels about the subject of marriage.
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Prove your commitment to him. Men are not going to want to marry someone they are unsure about. Tell him you love him often and stay faithful throughout the relationship.
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Tips & Warnings
If a man refuses to marry, you're going to have to learn to accept it. You'll either have to stick with him or choose to move on.
Don't give a man an ultimatum as a way to get him to marry. He'll resent you and may end the relationship.
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Comments
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sadinct
Nov 10, 2010
OMG i really wish someone would help me??I have been with this man for 6 years now and we have talked about marriage and he said hes scared???And then said i didnt mean never..then we broke up for 6 months and now we are back together so now what do i do????????? during the 7 months apart we did talk to each other never losing track of each other..he did start to see someone and so did i but they did not work out..HELP -
maytenelson
Aug 28, 2009
Don't jump into a marriage either. Get to know each other or you'll find the marriage falling apart at the seams as my 1st one did. I swore off marriage afterward; hwr, it took patience & time when the man who'd change my mind came into my life. He waited 5 yrs for me to trust us enough to do it again; it's been 20+ yrs now. There's something to say about getting to know each other before jumping into a marriage. Take your vows seriously else it will fall apart ending badly vs enjoying the golden yrs together.
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angellove24
Aug 13, 2009
If he won't marry you he is not worth your time and is just playing house if you are happy being just a girlfriend for the rest of your life then stay with him
