How to Determine if a Spouse Is Cheating

Cheating is a major problem in many marriages and this is a main reason why many people file for divorce. If you suddenly find yourself feeling distant from your spouse, feel like your spouse is being sneaky, or catch your spouse in lies, your spouse may be cheating on you. If you are want to determine if your spouse is cheating, follow these steps.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderate

1. Get hold of your spouse’s cell phone when she is not looking. Make sure that you have enough time to browse throughout the phone looking for unfamiliar numbers, text messages, and voice mail.
2. Pay careful attention to your finances and your credit card statements. If your spouse is cheating, you may notice purchases that you were not aware of. Look for restaurant purchases, jewelry, or hotel room charges.
3. Follow your spouse to work. Take the day off from work and just sit outside of his office and look for him leaving at lunchtime or early from work. Be sure to use a rental car or a friend’s car so that he doesn’t notice you. Follow him when he leaves work.
4. Take note if your spouse has frequent mood swings. Many times people in affairs who are leading double lives are very edgy around their spouses and they could blow up at any time. Document your spouse’s behavior over a two week span.
5. Hack into your spouse’s email account. If you don’t see anything that is suspicious, your spouse may be using another email that you are unaware of. Bring your computer to a computer technician and see if he can help you find something to help you determine if your spouse is cheating on you.