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Step 1
Improve your nerd lingo. The key to getting anyone interested is having an opening line or topic of conversation. So, read more and varied books to increase your ability to get her interested in you for your mind.
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Step 2
Dress hot. Any guy, even a nerdy one, is attracted by looks first. So, dress to impress when you want to get a nerd interested.
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Step 3
See them as an equal, because they may not be as popular as the jocks and cheerleaders, but they are a heck of a lot smarter. So, don't walk into a relationship with a nerd as though you are giving something back to the less fortunate. The nerds in school are the people who are running the country after graduation.
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Step 4
Find out what type of nerd he is. If he is not a science nerd, but an artsy one, then your approach may be different. For a science nerd, it may take challenging them in academics and winning respect. If you are trying to get an artsy nerd interested in you, you need to bone up on art and your artistic skills.
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Step 5
Ask her out to see her favorite band or artist. It is important to delve into her nerdy interests and share them with her.
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Step 6
Get a nerd interested by being interested in his family and his life. Look to the movie "She's All That." The cool guy got the nerdy girl interested by hanging out with her brother and father. It can work, especially with a very close-knit family.












