How to Catch a Girl's Eye

The best way to catch a girl's eye is to be yourself. No one wants a phony boyfriend or girlfriend. For one thing, it is too much work to maintain the illusion. The first impression is the most important one-it will last throughout your relationship. Be confident and relaxed-the best way to think of yourself is as if you would date yourself.

Things You'll Need

• Nice clothes
• Iron and board
• After shave
• Personality

Instructions

1. Decide that you are a great guy and that there is no reason for you not to catch the right girl's eye. Confidence is key to your success.

2. Communicate your sincerity through your dress. Your physical appearance is part of your first impression.

3. Control yourself, which means simply behave. Don't think it will catch a girl's eye to expel gas, tell dirty jokes and show up dressed as if you just crawled out of bed.

4. Watch players at the club-in many cases, the best approach is to do the complete opposite of what the player does. It is important to be yourself.

5. Listen to a girl when she talks. The most attractive thing to a woman is to have the man who catches her eye listen to her needs and desires. Pay attention to the girl you are talking to-look her in the eyes when she speaks.

6. Relax; it's important not to try too hard to get her attention. You will have to put forth some effort, but if a girl says "no," respect it and move on.

7. Prepare yourself for rejection especially if you are in a club. Clubs are often just "meat-markets" and genuine people sometimes are not what a girl is looking for.

Tips & Warnings

• Find a balance in yourself between manliness and romance.

• Behave as if you can be trusted-a girl needs to feel safe.

• You have to have thick skin when you are dating-not every girl is going to see the prince inside you.

• Be careful what you wish for-you may just get it.