Things You'll Need:
- How to ask the right questions
- Knowing what to observe
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Step 1
If you suspect physical abuse look for bruising, broken glass frames,
wounds in various stages of healing. Does the caregiver leave you alone together or demand to be present? Has your friend recently had broken bones? -
Step 2
If you suspect emotional abuse, is your friend withdrawn? Does the person seem confused? Have there been unusual withdrawals from their bank accounts? Do they seem fearful or secretive?
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Step 3
Neglect will show in dehydration, confusion, mental lapses which are unusual. People often think the person is developing dementia. The elderly person may be unclean, notice fingernails and hair. Good caretakers are careful to keep their patients hair and nails clean and clipped.
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Step 4
Most abuse of elders in the US is done by family members. If you suspect elder abuse in any form, report it to the police department. The police may refer you to Social Services or Mental Health Services for follow up. Make certain your report is acted upon. Notify other family members if you do not feel you have been listened to about the abuse. Tell the family members what you have observed.
Comments
grimsleygl said
on 4/10/2009 This is a tough one to read, but oh so important. I wonder too about the elderly in nursing homes...how well are they being taken care of? If family members do not visit often, there is no telling how neglected or perhaps even abused their loved one has been from visit to visit. As you said, we often think of dementia when we visit someone who is confused and/or withdrawn. Really a tough one! Thanks for the suggestions on things to look out for that 'could be' signs of neglect or straight out abuse! 5*'s and a recommend.