How to Tell your man ways to please you

By velocity

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Most men think they know all of the ins & outs to pleasing a woman. Most men think they're doing all the right things but some just aren't doing anything right at all. Would a woman seem to bossy or would it be a complete turn-off by telling a man the right way to do things? Would a man feel less of a man if he was asked to do something different aside from the strategy that he's been doing to please women all along. Below are just a few ice-breaking ways of how to tell your man how to please you without sounding disappointed with his original routine.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderately Challenging

Step1
Since you have reached this point where the two of you are about to explore passionate sex you should be openly communicating in every way possible. Whether its telling him his breath stinks or just to say "up a little right there; that's the spot" If we are about to have sex we shouldn't hesitate to tell our partners what pleases us.
Step2
The problem today with men is that the other women he's had dealings with has made him believe that he has been doing an outstanding job this could create somewhat different reaction when you tell your mate something he's doing doesn't work for you. So my suggestion is at that moment when you are engaging say it right then and there. Don't Hesitate!
Step3
You know what you like but unfortunately men cannot read our minds. What is an even better approach is to warn him ahead of time before the sex that you are bossy in the bedroom. He would find this much more seductive and be prepared to change his original plan. As opposed to turning him off with your unexpected antiques.

Tips & Warnings

  • Don't be too demanding and if you are make your demands sexy and stimulating.
  • It never hurts to say what you like and what you don't it's called being an individual.
  • BE BLESSED!

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velocity

velocity said

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on 5/13/2008 I've been in enough relationships to learn from all of my mistakes. Currently in a relationship and because of my experience "this may be it"... (keep your fingers crossed for me)

Tee-rex

Tee-rex said

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on 5/7/2008 you seem like the sex/love expert i wonder how many relations you have been in

velocity

velocity said

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on 3/24/2008 Thank you Lady!

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on 3/24/2008 good article.

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