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How to Compliment Someone You Hate

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Most people don't get along with everyone that they meet. However, it is best to not to make it widely known that you dislike or hate someone. While we may hate someone, there has to be something deep down that we like about that person. Be the better person and compliment someone who you hate and see if it changes the dynamics of your relationship.

Difficulty: Moderate
Instructions
  1. Step 1

    Keep it on the lowdown that you dislike or hate someone. While it may be difficult to keep such a feeling to yourself, in the end you will be happy that you did. You don't want to put others in an uncomfortable situation if they do like the person whom you hate.

  2. Step 2

    Think about why exactly you hate that person. Ask yourself if you don't like the person because of something that she did to you or if it is just jealousy issues that you are having.

  3. Step 3

    Take some time to find something good about the person whom you hate. You can then think about how you can pay this person a compliment to make yourself feel better and to take away such hatred.

  4. Step 4

    Pay the person whom you hate a compliment. Whether the person knows that you hate him or not, the person will feel better to know that you acknowledge good things about him.

  5. Step 5

    Try to reconnect with the person whom you hate by actively complimenting her and being honest with things that she does which bother you. In the end, you may end of liking the person more than you ever thought that you could.

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