How to Behave in Russia

Since the fall of the Soviet Union in 1990, Russia has made huge strides in opening itself to Western culture. The rich and varied history of Russia, however, still permeates the way most of its citizens think and behave. By taking a few precautions and knowing how to behave in Russia, you will be treated as a welcome guest in most Russian homes and businesses.

Instructions

1. Keep your voice down when you are having a conversation in public or in the home of a Russian family. Russians often complain about how loud Americans are, and how the average American is obsessed with expressing his opinion to everyone else in the room whether they are interested or not. Be quiet, polite and try not to hog the entire conversation.

2. Avoid debates about the merits of Russian culture versus Western culture in general and American culture in particular. National pride is an important part of being Russian, and you will most likely offend those around you by suggesting that any part of their culture is strange or inferior. While Russians prize honesty and openness, this is one instance where it's best to keep quiet.

3. Know how to behave when you're a guest in a Russian home, reminding yourself that Russians are generally a bit more private--even secretive--about their personal lives than is typical in the West. For instance, you shouldn't ask for a tour of the entire home or venture off into areas of the house where you have not been invited. In addition, remember to take off your shoes before you enter a Russian home.

4. Try not to smile excessively when you are with Russians unless you feel genuine happiness. Russians are certainly not as dour as their national reputation would indicate, but they will probably find it silly if you seem to be smiling for no apparent reason. Smile when you hear a joke, when you greet a child or when you make a toast, but don't smile throughout a basic conversation.

5. Bring a gift if you are invited to visit the home of a Russian. You won't need to bring anything extravagant--flowers or a small souvenir from America should suffice. Just avoid bringing a knife as a gift, as this is considered very bad luck.

Tips & Warnings

• Russians often joke about the American habit of apologizing for everything. For instance, if a Russian tells you that his mother has died, don't say "I'm sorry." It's better to simply comment that the death is a bad situation.