How to Control Your Anger
Let's face it, throughout your day, there will be someone or something that will make you angry. Whether it's another motorist, a bill collector or the cashier at your local grocer, you may often find yourself biting down on your lip in order to remain calm. Here's several techniques you can use to ward off outbursts of anger.
Instructions
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Realize that anger in itself is not bad. Anger is simply our body's way of letting us know that there is a conflict. Controlled anger can bring resolution. Anger that gets out of control can bring trouble and chaos. Try your best to maintain a positive attitude throughout your day.
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Seek peace in your life. Anger tends to build up, and whenever you counteract this by being peaceful, you win.
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Try laughter. Laughing has a way of dissolving anger, and can often turn a stressful situation around. Laughter begins with a smile.
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Read the signs. Am I uptight most of the time? Do I need to relax? Do others see my anger more that I am willing to? Be honest with yourself. If your anger tends to fester for long periods, or you display destructive behavior when mad, maybe its time to speak to someone that can help you to process your anger in a constructive way.
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Tips & Warnings
Try to remain calm.
Add humor to your day.
Smile often.
See both sides of an issue.
Don't lash out.
Don't become destructive.
Don't expect too much.
If anger gets out of control, seek help.
Comments
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Triune
Apr 10, 2009
This is very helpful. Those are some very good questions to ask yourself to control anger in #2. 5*, recommend -
ThenAgainMaybe
Mar 20, 2009
Very helpful article on how to control anger. Good tips for anyone! RRRC -
Handmade Dreams
Mar 18, 2009
Drinking a cold glass of water is very helpful too. Good article. -
Terri Brisbane
Mar 18, 2009
My hubs needs to read this, and he has high BP 5* -
NightowlMama
Mar 17, 2009
relaxation techniques are so important thanks