How to Plan for Your Child's Christening

If you have decided you are ready to give your child his or her first big event, here are some tips to help you make this special occasion enjoyable for everyone involved, and maybe a little easier on you. Just remember, this a family celebration. Don't stress about the unimportant things. Just enjoy the event. Read on to learn how to plan for your child's christening.

Instructions

1. Sit down and make a list of dates that fit your schedule. Next, check with the church or building where the ceremony will take place to see if one of the dates on your list is available.

2. Talk to those you wish to be a part of the ceremony, such as the godparents, to be sure they are available and set aside your chosen date. If you plan to have any friends or family members participate, make sure you discuss their roles.

3. Make sure the godparents also understand their role in your child's future. After all, next to you, these are the most important people in your child's life. Give careful consideration when making this choice. This is probably the most important decision you will ever make in your lifetime. Discuss all aspects of your views and preferences regarding your child's future.

4. If you plan to have the ceremony in a church, arrange to meet with the Vicar. They can tell you how the ceremony is usually conducted, and answer any questions. This will help you plan what type of ceremony you both feel comfortable with. The Vicar will appreciate the common courtesy.

5. Most churches do not charge a fee for christening services, but give careful consideration into a donation. The majority of churches depend on donations from the community. Any gift you could offer would be appreciated.

6. You can send out invitations or simply call or email, depending on how formal you plan the ceremony. Be sure to include directions for guests who may not be familiar with the church you use.

7. Do not forget that the ceremony is about your child. Do your best to keep the "star" of the event happy and comfortable.

8. Some churches disapprove of video and photography during the ceremony, while others feel it encourages the memories and have no problem with it. Find out which your church prefers. Be sure to inform your guests as to whether they can bring cameras into the church or if they need to wait until later for pictures. You could also book a formal sitting with close family or friends for the day before or after the ceremony. Have everyone wear the same outfits they wear for the actual ceremony. This will give you a lasting souvenir, with everyone more rested.

Tips & Warnings

• Just remember this day is a celebration. Be practical, and remember the guest of honor is still young and tires easily. Make time for naps, feedings and diaper changes to keep your little one happy.