Step1
Preparation is the most important part. When you light that match, you'll want to have everything you need within reach to nourish that fire and keep it going.
First you need to get the driest, thinnest twigs you can find in the woods or around your yard. These twigs should be no thicker than a tooth-pick. Take your time with this step, since it's the most important to get good tinder or "grump."
They need to be dry. When you bend them, they should have a faint, but satisfying snap sound and a clean break. If you can find dry twigs without bark, that's best. Bark tends to hold in moisture, and moisture is bad news for starting a fire.
Find a couple of fist-fulls of these twigs and place them by the fire area. Then go back into the woods.
NOTE: Do not use leaves, bark, or pine-cones. These SEEM like a good idea, but they generally just make a lot of smoke and a pretty fickle fire. Dry grass is good to use.
Step2
Next, you want about four fistfulls of dry sticks about the thickness of your little finger. Make sure they're dry...when you bend them they should snap clean and make a good crack sound. Bring these to your fire area.
Step3
Now get an armload of sticks about half an inch to an inch thick. Again, make sure they're dry. Usually you can get these from dead branches of trees. The ideal wood won't have any bark on it, and it will be a dry, light gray. Bring this back to your fire place.
Step4
Now go and get an armload of wood as thick as your fore-arm or larger and bring it back to the fire area. You don't need too much of this stuff right off. By the time you've gotten this burning, you'll have time to forage for more wood as needed.
Step5
Almost there. Now to arrange the fire. Take half of your tiny, dry twigs and form them into a pile in your fire area. It should look like a miniature thicket.
Place some larger pieces of wood around it to shield it from strong breezes and to help it keep its shape. You want the pile to be tall rather than wide.
Make sure there's a small hole where the match can go.
The idea here is, you're going to light the really small dry stuff. When it catches fire, feed more of the small twigs to it. What you've done is created a core that has attained combustion temperatures. You want to build around that core to both insulate it and give it more fuel.
Once the small twigs are going, slowly feed larger and larger pieces of wood to the fire until you're able to feed the arm sized stuff. Don't add the wood too fast or you'll cut off oxygen flow.
Step6
Ready? You're about to strike the match. If there's a breeze, position yourself so that you're shielding the twig thicket from the wind.
Strike the match and insert it into the twig thicket, holding it in place for as long as you can. Try to get as many of the small twigs list as you can.
Step7
Once the thicket is lit, slowly add more twigs to it. Don't add them all at once or you could smother the fire. You want to place them in a controlled manner. As the fire grows, add gradually larger and larger pieces. Add them one at a time, waiting for the new one to catch fire before you add the next.