How to Get in on a Secret

To satisfy an insatiable thirst for knowledge about everything going on, you need to learn how to get in on secrets. Sometimes you may be kept in the dark about certain bits of information that people wish to keep private. Learning how to get around those secret road blocks keeps the information flowing.

Instructions

Difficulty: Easy

1. Keep your lips sealed. If you want to get in on secrets, prove that you can keep people's secrets. Refrain from spreading other secrets you are privy to. Stay away from participating in gossip. Establish yourself as a trustworthy person so people feel comfortable coming to you with their secrets.
2. Be a good listener. To get in on secrets, people have to like talking to you. Build your reputation as a reliable friend. Lend an ear to those who need one. Listen more and talk less. You'll be surprised what people reveal to you.
3. Model good citizenship. Do not to partake in any lying, stealing or scamming. These malicious acts forever ruin your reputation. Being a good citizen establishes your integrity and helps you get in on more secrets.
4. Exchange information with friends. The easiest way to get in on a secret is to exchange your secrets with that person. If you entrust someone with your private information they are more likely to reciprocate the gesture. Be open, share your feelings and let others know you have confidence in them.