How to Date a Girl in Middle School When You're Overweight

There's a special girl in school that you really like but you're afraid your weight will keep her from returning your feelings. Being confident in middle school can be tough for even the popular kids, so you're not alone. When you want to establish a relationship with a girl, there are some techniques to make it easier.

Instructions

1. Smile in the classroom and in the hallway. Everyone one likes a smile and it makes you look happy and confident. The girl will notice that you're being nice to her and you can judge her reactions to determine if she feels the same way.

2. Strike up a conversation at lunch or after school. Keep the topic general. Ask her about her science project or her impression of a certain teacher. If she takes the time to stop and talk with you, that's a good sign.

3. Move slowly. It takes time to establish a friendship, which is the basis of any good relationship. If the girl feels like you're stalking her, she will shy away from your advances.

4. Find something to compliment her on every time you see her but don't be phony. Casual compliments about a good answer she gave in class or her latest tennis match will show her that you're interested. Use compliments about personal looks sparingly.

5. Invite her over after school when you establish a talking relationship. Ask your mother to make a special after-school treat if she agrees. Play video games or take a walk around the neighborhood.

6. Ask her to go on an age-appropriate date, if she enjoys your company. Trips to the mall after school or a movie are good ideas if both of your parents are agreeable.

7. Exercise as often as you can to reduce your weight, not so much for the girl but for your own health and confidence. Walk instead of riding and eat smaller portions of healthy food. Participating in a sport not only helps keep your body in shape, it increases your confidence.

Tips & Warnings

• Don't worry if you don't get a date in middle school. You're still very young and you will have plenty of dates when you get older.