How to Keep the Conversation Flowing With a Girl

Lulls in conversation are normal, especially when both people are nervous and trying to make a good impression. Relaxing and being yourself is the most important part of keeping a conversation flowing when you're talking to a girl. Ask questions, say whatever comes to mind and be your funny self to keep her interested in talking to you.

Instructions

1. Take the pressure off yourself. This isn't a competition, nor are you on trial. The girl you like is another human being who has as many faults and quirks as you do. Relax and just be yourself. If she likes you, she'll naturally start talking once she senses you're open and available to listen.

2. Ask questions to find out about her interests, life and goals. Guys naturally start talking about themselves as if they're on an interview when they meet a girl they like. Try to avoid this tendency. Ask her about herself, and after she's done talking, she'll ask about you.

3. Answer her questions honestly but in a positive manner that keeps the conversation light and friendly. Divulging too much personal information too soon can dampen a budding romance. Keep your answers light and then, instead of continuing to talk about yourself, ask her another question.

4. Bring other people into the conversation if things are bombing. Ask a friend to back you up on a point or to tell a story from "that one time when." Involving someone else who's in close physical proximity alleviates the pressure you're both feeling.

Tips & Warnings

• Everyday topics of conversation such as movies, weather, celebrity gossip and world or local news can help take the spotlight off the two of you.