How to Chat With a Crush on MSN
The Internet has become one of the primary ways that people communicate and meet other people. With chat sites and dating forums, romance can definitely bloom online. Capturing a crush's interest has to be done a bit differently when instant messaging.
Instructions
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Use emoticons sparingly; only attach them to your text to emphasize statements that are really important or funny. They're cute, but if you use them sentence after sentence, they can become annoying.
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Take the time to read your crush's profile if she has one. Profiles list basic facts and details about MSN members and can give you ideas for chat topics based on the person's interests. Your crush's profile can also give you clues about her likes and dislikes, so you don't find yourself chatting about how boring a certain movie was only to find out it's your crush's favorite film.
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Choose an icon for yourself that is intriguing and represents you. If you and your crush share a common interest, use an icon representing that interest so your crush will notice it. Icons may be small onscreen, but they can be a great way to start a conversation.
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Let your crush know you're interested, but do so within reason. Messaging him every five minutes or leaving him lots of messages when he's not online can only make you appear invasive and pushy. It may result in your crush becoming wary about signing on to talk to you at all.
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Be yourself. It's easy to get carried away online and pretend to be someone that you're not. Flirtation with an online crush is one thing, but lying about yourself is just wrong. Play up and emphasize your positive qualities but be honest about yourself and who you are. Making up lies about yourself isn't fair to you or your crush.
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