How to Fix a Bad First Impression
Success in fixing a bad first impression depends on accurately calculating the reason why you left a bad impression in the first place and taking measures to fix it at the next opportunity. Simple good etiquette and a positive attitude are important parts of this process.
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Instructions
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Figure out why you put off the other person when you first met him. The reason could be as simple as you were short with him or as complex as you cracked a joke that he took personally. See if you can pin down the reason for the offense.
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Determine when you'll next see the person and lay a plan for changing her impression of you. Be sure to take care of small details. Dress well, brush you teeth and make sure your breath doesn't smell.
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Walk in confidently with a smile at your next meeting. Don't act sheepish. Focus on the here and now and the second chance you have. Approach the person at a moment that feels natural and strike up a conversation. Change his mind about you by executing your well-laid plan.
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Tips & Warnings
Consider how you found out that the person had a bad impression of you. If the information is second-hand, take it with a grain of salt. It may not be as bad as you think, especially if the person didn't tell you directly.
If an apology is necessary, be quick to offer it. Be sincere and look the person in the eyes. Ask her how you can make it up to her.
