How to Bond With a Toy

Bonding consists of an emotional attachment and connection, often between two people, however it also exists between people and things. Most children develop a bond with a favorite blanket or toy when they are young; the item provides a sense of security and helps introduce the child to caring and love.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderate

1. Pick out a toy that your child is drawn to. Find a toy that is age appropriate. A toy store offers many options to choose from.
2. Allow your child to name the toy. Not only is this a fun process that personalizes the toy, but it allows bonding with the parent as well.
3. Create daily rituals for the child that include the toy and take the toy places. Whether to the park, to the grocery store or on vacation, keep the bond going with constant contact.
4. Place the toy in the bed or beside the bed for the child to see each night and when they wake up in the morning.
5. Take pictures of your child with the toy. These pictures can be displayed in the child's room, on the refrigerator or in a scrapbook in order to capture memories of your child with the toy.

Tips & Warnings

• Once the child has bonded with the toy and the relationship is no longer necessary, explore healthy ways to gradually remove the toy, yet keep the toy as a reference point of fond memories and growth.
• Monitor toy recalls and toy safety lists to avoid dangerous toys.