How to Become Irresistible to Girls

Becoming irresistible to the girls in your life is actually simpler than you might think. Mostly what it takes is a resolve to bite your tongue, ask questions and withhold information while waiting for opportune moments to show affection, tenderness and appreciation.

Instructions

1. Listen about 80 percent of the time. Many guys act as if they're at a job interview when in the presence of cute girls and talk only about themselves. Girls are likely to ask a lot of questions and expect you to ask questions in return. Asking her questions makes your new girl feel important and cared for. Ask questions and watch her come out of her shell.

2. Give thoughtful compliments at timely moments, but not all the time. Guys who compliment too often seem to be trying to win a girl's affections for possibly selfish reasons. Notice when she has done something special to her hair or when her outfit looks great, but don't search for something to say.

3. Remain a mystery. Divulging too much too soon cuts all the romance and mystery out of the equation. Let her affections grow for you over time. Impress her with tidbits about yourself when you do see her. Refrain from letting her know you've been hurt, have a tough past or have a long list of accomplishments. Share one positive thing at a time. She'll wonder how much more there is to find out.

4. Be funny. Crack witty jokes, not dirty or inappropriate ones.

5. Protect and respect all the females in your life. Watch out for them, open car and restaurant doors and walk them to their cars at night. Pretend that chivalry was given new birth through you.

Tips & Warnings

• Treat all girls in this same manner. Girls you're attracted to will see the consistency of your gentleness and respect and be wooed. In time, you'll find the one who's right for you.

• Avoid being so sensitive and caring that you seem wimpy. Most girls want a guy who's willing to stand up for them and protect them. Don't lose your masculinity while being sweet.