How to Agree Which Songs a Band Plays

Nothing creates tension faster in a band than creative differences. Groups such as the Beatles and Van Halen prove that clashes and breakups occur when band members are forced to play songs they didn't all agree upon. Here are some ideas on getting your band to agree on which songs to play.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderate

1. Call a round table meeting for all members. Establish the ground rules. Pass out paper and pens or elect one person to keep the official list of songs under consideration.
2. Talk about the band's genre of music, influences from popular bands and songs. Assess the type of message and cohesiveness to the band's individual style and presence.
3. Discuss the types of gigs you plan on playing. Profits are generated by the decision to play cover songs or original songs. Mix it up equally or playing more cover songs with new gigs.
4. Write down suggestions. All the band members should be given a few minutes to write down the songs they are interested in playing.
5. Take turns allowing each band member to share their list. Offer an opportunity for explanation, if necessary. Get input from all other band members as to whether they agree or disagree.
6. Cut down the list to a manageable number of selections. Newer bands may want to stick with songs with simpler arrangements.
7. Reach an agreement. Review the final lists of songs. Opt for a variety of music for the band's signature style. Remember to make compromises when necessary. Attempt to honor every member of the band's individual style and preferences.

Tips & Warnings

• Allowing band members one solo song per gig could keep tensions from erupting.