How to Stop Scaring Men Away

Many women lament about not being able to find themselves a man. They wonder what they are doing wrong and what they can do better. The obvious truth is many women simply scare men away. Not intentionally, of course, but many women have a knack for scaring the men they meet right out of their lives. Here's how not to do that.

Instructions

Difficulty: Easy

1. Stay calm. Once in a new relationship, the female brain can
   sometimes go into overdrive. Women become neurotic, overly excitable,
   irrational and outright silly. Make it a point to stay calm, put things
   into perspective and avoid planning ahead. Take a deep breath and calm down.
2. Act confidently. You know who you are, what you stand for and what
   you want. Don't let a new relationship change you into someone who's weird
   and needy. Men love confident women.
3. Act aloof. You can't scare a man away if he's the one chasing after
   you. If you will keep your distance, he will pursue. Men like a challenge,
   they can't help but go after the aloof ones.
4. Maintain your own life. Your personality, career, interests and
   friends are still the same whether you're in a new relationship or not.
   Realize that your happiness does not depend on this new relationship working out. You have your own life and you like it. Men dig that.

Tips & Warnings

• Check out the movie "How to Lose a Guy in Ten Days." It will give you step by step instructions of what not to do.
• Don't chase or smother. Men don't like that--it scares them away. Don't be needy--they hate that even more.