How to Follow Russian Table Manners

Table manners in Russian society are generally more casual than in some other countries. A meal is supposed to be fun and relaxed, but there are some customs of which you should be aware. When dining in someone's home or at someone's invitation, it's important to show graciousness towards the host.

Instructions

1. Wait to begin eating until you are invited to do so by the host, or follow the host's lead.

2. Avoid drinking vodka before a toast has been made. Keep your glass raised throughout the toast and then clink glasses with others before taking the shot of vodka. In Russia, vodka is usually served neat and taken as a shot.

3. Hold your fork in your left hand and your knife in the right.

4. Keep your hands visible at all times. It is not good manners to rest your hands in your lap.

5. Keep your elbows off the table.

6. Refrain from making offensive noises at the table.

7. Use bread to absorb excess sauce or gravy on your plate. This is not only accepted, it is recommended.

8. Leave some food on your plate when you are finished. This shows the host that you dined sufficiently and that there was more than enough food for you.

9. Compliment whoever made the food before you leave the table.

10. Wait to leave the table at the end of a meal until your are invited to do so by the host. If the host gets up to leave, you may follow.

Tips & Warnings

• Don't be surprised if the host repeatedly offers you second helpings. This is a common Russian custom.

• Russian table manners are not overly strict. You don't have to stand on ceremony, particularly at someone's home. It's important to Russians that you are able to relax and enjoy yourself.

• Eat something after having a shot of vodka. This is a common practice that most people follow. It also has a functional purpose of helping absorb some of the alcohol between rounds.

• When dining at someone's home, it is polite to ask if you can help with anything before and after the meal. Your offer may not be accepted, but it will be appreciated.

• If you are a man, it is expected that you pour the drink for the woman sitting next to you. Ladies should expect their drink to be poured for them as well.

• Don't talk with your mouth full.

• Don't be surprised if you find there are no knives on the table.

• Don't cut bite-sized food.

• Don't look at or comment on someone else's plate of food.