Things You'll Need:
- Imagination
- Sensitivity
- An open heart
- A smile
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Step 1
Surround your family with optimism and optimistic attitudes. Look for the silver lining. Spread good vibes and uplifting thoughts.
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Step 2
Refrain from criticizing or critiquing your family in public. Don't participate in gossiping about each other. Unless, of course, you are spreading heavenly gossip.
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Step 3
Never, ever allow family put downs. We all have enough put downs from strangers, we don't need that from family too.
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Step 4
Always be available when your family needs you. Tell them, "I'm here for you."
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Step 5
Look for your family’s hidden talents and freely pass out compliments and praise.
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Step 6
Hold a family picnic and have a watermelon spitting contest.
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Step 7
Keep your promises.
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Step 8
Be really interested in what your family members are doing, thinking, feeling. Ask them about their dreams and longings. Say, "I believe in you."
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Step 9
On birthdays write a letter about how much you admire each special quality. Tell your family members how much you enjoy their quirky ways. Laugh about your own quirky ways.
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Step 10
Practice what you preach. If you give out advice, follow it too.






















Comments
LilacGirl said
on 5/22/2008 What a lovely, life-affirming article! You gave me some ideas I'm going to try too. 5 stars