Step1
Determining the "flaws" and finding the positive side.
If your wife is: Think that:
1. NOSY She may be very alert or sociable
2. TOUCHY She may be very sensitive
3. MANIPULATING She may be a very resourceful person with
many creating ideas
4. STINGY She may be very thrifty
5. TALKATIVE She may be very expressive and dramatic
6. FLIGHTY She may be an enthusiastic
person with cheerful vitality
7. TOO SERIOUS She may be very sincere and
earnest person with strong convictions
8. TOO BOLD She may have strong convictions,
uncompromising with her own standards
9. RIGID She may be a well-disciplined person with
strong convictions
10. OVERBEARING She may be a very confident person--sure
of herself
11. A DREAMER She may be very creative and imaginative
12. TOO FUSSY She may be very organized and efficient
(source:
If Only He Knew)
Step2
There I've illustrated the chart,(with this chart, you will need more of the patience you've got). Husbands, all a wife need is a sincere appreciation, a simple praise (except for the weekly or monthly budget)wink! A praise for a job well done, -imganine yourself being praised by your boss-you surely feel great ,right? Thats what a wife need. "How a great mom she is to your kids", "That you're greatful you married her"- a simple and sincere praise can bring a new life in your marriage.
Step3
In marriage, Love is important, so as TRUST and RESPECT.
If you still love your wife, your family, dont ever hesitate to give trust and respect to your wife. On the other hand make her trust you, if your wife trusts you she will respect you.
If you do that there will be no more watching your back anymore. The flaws that you see in your wife will eventually turn into" Go ahead dear, have fun!", " "Ok, honey, enjoy your boys night out!"
Comments
LEEDRAKE said
on 4/24/2008 sounds good. I 'll try.
Dubtrizzle said
on 3/8/2008 Excellent article! Alot of people could use this information, very helpful and informative.