How to Get His Attention

Getting a man's attention requires sensuality, femininity and confidence.

When a woman truly becomes interested in a man, she will strive to capture his attention. She will go to great lengths to fascinate and win him, in hopes of earning his affection. Unfortunately, some women take ridiculous measures, only to find that their plan backfires. Capturing a man's attention does not require the best clothes or excessive flirting. In fact, sometimes it's as simple as being yourself with a hint of mystery.

Instructions

1. 

   Confidence is all about how you carry yourself.

   Be confident. Even if you're feeling nervous, hold your head up high and keep your shoulders back. Keep your body language open yet also present an air of mystery.

2. 

   Establish common interests to keep the conversation full of life.

   Initiate conversation. Sitting in silence is certainly not going to capture a man's attention. Break the ice by cracking a joke or flat-out asking what he enjoys. Find common interests and discuss them.

3. 

   Listening shows that you're taking an interest in him.

   Listen actively. When asking questions, listen closely to his response. Don't think of what you're going to say while he's talking. Go with the flow of the conversation.

4. Be unpredictable. If you're always readily available, the chase is over and predictability sets in. Every once in a while, turn down his date offers and let the phone go to voice mail. This air of mystery keeps him guessing and arouses his curiosity.

5. 

   Flatter your body with attractive apparel.

   Dress your best. When you look your best, you feel your best. This doesn't necessarily mean you should go out and splurge on name-brand clothes. Wear ensembles that flatter your figure and make you feel good about yourself.

6. 

   Holding his gaze proves confidence.

   Make eye contact. When you catch him looking at you, hold his gaze for two to three seconds with a sly smile on your lips.

7. 

   Smiling is perhaps the most important step in capturing a man's attention.

   Smile. Show him that you're sensual and flirtatious in a feminine way. Gently touch his shoulder when you're making a point. Run your fingers through your hair. Be polite yet alluring. There is no need for excessive touching. Touch him with your sensuality by being warm, appreciative and feminine.

References

• Women Dating Manual: Drawing His Attention - How to Get Him To Notice You
• Your Tango: How to Get His Attention Without Even Trying
• Dating Secrets for Divorced Women: Keep a Guy Interested In You - Get Your Man's Attention by Suzy Weiss