How to talk to girls/women

By idiotuser2

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This is the first in a series of in depth articles guiding a person from complete awkwardness and loser-dom to the end goal of sealing the deal--what ever that may mean for you.

Instructions

Difficulty: Easy

Things You’ll Need:

  • nothing

Step1
there is really only one step here. Give me a break about little slips in PC rhetoric, k?
Step2
Be able to take rejection as not a rejection of yourself but as a rejection of your current level of social skills. It’s the impetus to improvement. It’s your shyness that they’re rejecting. Your lack of confidence.
Step3
Ok, here's the main thrust! hopefully it may get you thrusting away one of these days!

Other people (girls you will never see again) are other people. And lets face it, their innermost thoughts and feelings don’t really matter for the most part to your life and to your happiness. So you give a casual “hi” to a girl, what’s the worst of the worst case scenarios? That she’ll be a little creeped out by you. A semi-attractive girl is approached all the time by people trying to hit on her, in most cases, in a much more active fashion. She may ignore you, that just means she’s ignorant and a bitch. In this case, your ego may be a little bruised. If the passover was intentional, and perhaps a little mean spirited, a nice little disparaging comment can really save face, or if you’re more grown up, you can ignore it and not let it bother you. For a response if she’s rude, I like, “well, someone’s seriously overestimating their appeal.” Or “someone’s dreaming they’re the ****.” In most cases, 99.999999%, the woman is not in need of serious medication, and nothing bad beyond this can happen. So, don’t be a wuss; as you pass a girl, say hi!

Still doubtful? Still worried about some small rejection? But honestly, its just stupid to worry about it. Hopefully you can get to the point where these tiny rejections don’t bother you. Because after all, the mind of another may as well be another galaxy light years away. We can only really know another’s thoughts by abstraction. And besides, who really cares anyways? Are you really that sensitive to what other people think? If you are, then confidence and self-worth are big issues. You need to go to step 2 “internal confience”

So, here is a teensy step to getting used to talking to women, which is a teensy step towards getting laid like a rock star, or at least getting laid with at least some frequency. This is a small step, but this philosophy can be applied throughout, up to the point of scoring big.

THE NEXT STEP "internal confidence" WILL BE PROVIDED LATER

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