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Step 1
Before making any reservations, talk to each family member going on the vacation to find out what they would like to do, see and experience. Take each person's thoughts into consideration when planning the location, time of year, and type of vacation.
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Step 2
When making reservations, ask about amenities offered on site, make any requests for cribs, roll-aways, extra pillows and personal needs at this time. Make sure there will be enough space for everyone to be comfortable. Often times it pays to get a two- or three-bedroom suite or condo when traveling with different age groups.
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Step 3
Before you leave for vacation, discuss how you plan to spend your time. Determine if you will spend all of your time together or if you will split for separate activities and meet up at certain times of the day.
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Step 4
Try to accommodate at least one of each family member's requests. Take the young children to the zoo; take the grandparents to the museum, or whatever they desire.
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Step 5
Remember a slower pace is sometimes good for everyone. Each day does not have to be packed with planned activities. Sometimes it works well to sleep in, and let the day fall into place. Some unstructured time around the pool can be relaxing for the grandparents and exciting for the children.
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Step 6
Do not expect the grandparents to be babysitters while on vacation. They expect to enjoy the family while together, but unless they volunteer to watch the children, your kids are still your responsibility.
