Be fair make sure you keep everything equal don't show picks or favors or the child getting the less attention will get jealous causing all types of problems.
Step2
Listen make sure you hear both sides and let them know that a part of growing up is having conflict it depends on how you handle the situation.
Step3
Do family things together have the two conflicting children bake cookies together. Some type of household task and let them know without each other they could of not done such a good job.
Tips & Warnings
make sure you have hands off no matter what rule in your house
Comments
CrazyAce said
on 3/21/2008 Kids learn from example. Stop fighting with your spouse first.
Be consistent and enforce it.