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How to Express Feelings to One's Love

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Feelings are raw, messy and often kept inside. Express your feelings to the people you love to show them every day that you care. The worst feeling of loss is the feeling of lost time or the feeling of things left unsaid.

Difficulty: Moderately Challenging
Instructions
  1. Step 1

    Write a love letter. These seem antiquated in a world of text messages and emails, but taking the time to write down your true feelings of love and devotion to the one you love is a very sentimental and endearing way to express your heart.

  2. Step 2

    Pen a love poem. The difference between a love letter and a love poem is simply that a poem must be more structured. You can choose to rhyme or not, but pull out your thesaurus and write a truly unique poem to express your feelings to your love.

  3. Step 3

    Express your feelings to the one you love by doing things to lighten their load. This can be as easy as doing laundry, picking up dinner or helping him carry his stack of books from the library.

  4. Step 4

    Say it out loud. When the mood strikes you or another aspect of her personality seems particularly cute or loveable, tell her so. Spontaneous words of love are a great way to express your feelings.

  5. Step 5

    Get their attention. Doing something out of the ordinary, like taking her to her favorite restaurant even though you hate it, will set the perfect mood for an outpouring of feelings. In order to properly express love, you must be heard.

  6. Step 6

    Be kind. If the feelings you need to express are critical or possibly hurtful, make sure that you find the right words that will make your loved one understand what you are saying without feeling attacked.

  7. Step 7

    Trust the one you love to be open to your feelings. Feeling fearful regarding her reaction can be detrimental. If she really loves you, she will understand and accept whatever you have to say, good or bad, and your relationship will grow because of it.

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