How to Choose Between Two Guys
When the song "Torn Between Two Lovers" starts to take on real meaning, you've probably reached a crossroads in your relationships with 2 different guys. Weigh the pros and cons to choose between them and enjoy living life with your one true love.
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Analyze their temperaments. Choose the one who is as honest, communicative and trustworthy as you are. Opposites may attract, but discover which guy has qualities that are compatible with yours or that you'll be willing to deal with if they differ.
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Evaluate your values, religious backgrounds, sexuality, money management, habits and flaws for clues to lifelong compatibility or problems down the road.
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Envision your future to see who will best "fit" your plans. Problems will arise if you want to move to another state to raise a family, but your choice aspires to remain childless and live in the same house he owns now, for example.
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Compare their interests with yours. Although you won't spend every waking moment together, it will be nice to have pastimes that you can share. Decide if you can live with your choice's other hobbies and ensure he's not put off by yours.
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Review the time you've spent together. Remember if one has been more supportive during a crisis, tragedy or illness you've experienced while together.
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Ask your family and friends for advice. They know you well, so trust their instincts if they have a strong aversion to or preference for one of the guys.
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Study your feelings about their families and friends since you may be spending a lot of time with them. Watch how each one treats his mother and siblings, since the interaction may reveal how he'll treat you as your relationship matures.
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Tips & Warnings
If you've analyzed all the criteria and still can't choose one over the other, maybe neither man is Mr. Right. If you're not ready to get serious with one, however, there's no reason you can't continue to see both. If you want to settle down, however, consider breaking up with both guys to find one that won't leave you feeling so conflicted.
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thisz isz kindduh helping for peoplee that are inbetween two men.
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I need help. there's my boyfriend who sometimes treats me like a princess and is one of my best friends I have fun with him most of the time and then there's this other guy who is just perfect. he goes to church, hes extremly sweet and has everything I want in a guy, but I don't want to break up with my boyfriend and hurt him, I don't think he will ever forgive me what do I do?
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so there's this guy that I dated about 4 years ago and he moved to hawaii for the navy (btw.. I live in ohio) and we absolutely fell head over heels for each other but when he moved away he got married but is now divorced and has a girlfriend and we talk all the time and and still have the same feelings as when we dated... then right now I have a current boyfriend of 5 months that I am falling in love with and he is absolutely amazing... how do I choose?
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who do u see urself with in a few years?
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help! these two guys are just perfect for me. 1)is very smart outgoing 23, its in animatin computer science (pixar) 2) jewish, very lovable, nursing 21.
