How to Earn a Girl's Trust Back After Lying
Lying might seem like an easy solution to get out of certain situations, but it is definitely not the best solution. The truth comes out eventually. Soon enough, the person who was lied to will discover it. Here are some ways to earn a girl's trust back after having lied to her.
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Apologize for lying to her. Make sure to be sincere when apologizing so she will believe you. Acknowledge that telling the lie was wrong.
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Reveal every lie that was told and why it was told in order to start fresh. If everything is disclosed up front, the girl will not have to wonder what other issues may be untrue.
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Disclose everything truthfully from now on and invite her to check up on you from time to time in order to prove that you are telling the truth.
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Promise yourself and the girl that you will not lie again and stick to that promise. Prove to her that the lying has stopped so she can start trusting again.
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Tell the girl that you don't expect her to trust again right away but that you are making the effort to stop lying. This will help her realize that you are serious about fixing the bad things that have happened.
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Give her time to heal. Her feelings have been hurt, and it will take time for her to warm up to you again. Don't expect everything to go back to normal right away just because you've apologized.
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snuggles57
Oct 22, 2010
So, what do you suggest when you find out your man has lied to you and he lies about the lie, several times and each time you have forgiven him and then all of a sudden his behavior reverts back to when he lied to you in the past and he is keeping his phones on his person 24 hours a day and says that I am having the trust issues and that I have not forgiven him for past lies and that if I look at his phones we are through? And that he is not sexting with someone. What would you assume is going on? -
Eve Bernshaw
Nov 08, 2008
This is a good start...assuming they are mature enough to even have the conversation. You are right, without the basis of truth from here on out, there could never be enough trust to move forward.
