How to Apologize Creatively

Apologizing is an art form. When the offense is laughable and both parties should make up, a creative apology can help restore the fun and joy that's missing from the relationship. You need spontaneity, creativity and probably a little cash for a creative "I'm sorry." Remember, etiquette remains adamant that serious offenses require serious apologies. Read on to learn how to apologize creatively.

Difficulty: Moderate

Instructions

1. Hire a performer to sing, act or dance an apology. If you'd rather do the performing and risk embarrassment, rent a costume to apologize in and give the performance of your life at her doorstep or while she's out eating dinner with a friend. Making a fool of yourself or having someone else make a fool of himself on your behalf is a great way to break the ice.

2. Think of the things you have told him you hate to do but he loves to do. Set up a date and time to do exactly that, but keep the event a surprise. When you arrive at the event, apologize for whatever misunderstanding or offense happened and put it all behind you by participating in one of his favorite activities. This could be anything from a manicure and pedicure to a paintball outing. Whatever you decide, maintain a good attitude so that the apology is sincere.

3. Make something simple and handmade. Create a collage from newspaper or magazine clippings that spells out your apology. Leave clues, like for a scavenger hunt, to lead to your apology. Leave a big poster board in her car that admits your wrong-doing and ask her to drive around with it. Write a poem or a song for her. Color a page in a coloring book that fits the reason for your fight.

4. Make a photo album of great moments you've had together. For the last photo, take a picture that's a re-enactment of your infraction, and incorporate "I'm sorry" into the picture. This focuses the attention on more important things and shows the strength of your relationship while acknowledging the wrong you've done in a light and humorous way.

Tips & Warnings

• Flowers and chocolates have become standards for apologies. If you want to be creative, do something different.
• Keep the actual words that you say simple. Let the creative expression you decide on be a celebration of good times and a putting of the incident behind you.