How to Be Smooth With the Ladies
For centuries, men have sought to discover the key to unlock the female soul. Though most have failed to achieve this goal, there are some who have learned how to allure, fascinate and seduce women with astonishing success. This article offers some guidance on how to create an environment that intrigues women. Follow these steps to help you be smooth with the ladies.
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Be confident. Though this may sound cliché at first glance, there is nothing that appeals to ladies so much as the feeling that a man is completely self-assured. If you carry yourself with confidence, dress well and behave as though you are happy with or without her attention, she will want to know more about you.
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Show your admiration for her without being predictable. In other words, when you are talking to a lady, trying to be smooth, make eye contact, and show her you are zoned in on her alone. Pay compliments, but resist the temptation to use tired pick-up lines. For example, tell her you really like her shirt or shoes. Do it with a matter-of-fact air that tells her you're interested, but not faking interest.
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Make proper use of your non-verbal communication skills. Much of the communication that takes place between men and women is not spoken. Take the time to understand what certain signs indicate. For example, when you speak to a lady, always keep your arms at your side rather than crossing them over your chest. By doing so, it indicates your openness to her.
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Know that an excellent conversationalist is the kind of man ladies find smooth. Nothing is so appealing as a man who knows how to talk about all manner of subjects with ease. Ask a lot of questions. Find out what she is interested in, and talk about those things at length. Try not to dominate the conversation, but use your skill to guide the conversation in ways that keep her intrigued. A smooth man is an intelligent man.
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Enjoy the woman's company without having a set goal. For instance, if a woman knows your goal is simply to pick her up, she will not be interested in you for very long. So, be sure to develop a rapport with her. Engage her interest in you. But, try to resist the temptation to begin asking for her number right away. If she likes you, she will offer you her number without any proposition on your part.
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