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Step 1
Go into a kiss with lips conditioned for peak performance. Exfoliate lips with a dry toothbrush, and use lip balm on a regular basis. Breath mints are also good after eating strong foods; barring those, share the dish with your partner to reduce the impact of the flavors. Finally, scrape the tongue to get rid of nasty bad breath causing bacteria before a passionate lip-lock.
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Step 2
Make the most of the lips, since they're teeming with nerve endings. Besides the fingers and the genitals, the lips contain a huge amount of sensors that react intensely to stimulation. When aroused, the lips swell and the nerves become sensitized, making touch a pleasure. That means that even the softest surface brush can send shivers up the spine.
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Step 3
Pay attention to how and where your lover is kissing you. Cheek kisses can signal shyness or reluctance to open up in a relationship, according to body language expert Tony Reiman. Further down the road, however, a change in kissing style means something is up. Communication is often the best lubricant, so it might be time to start talking.
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Step 4
Keep mirroring in mind to heat up your kisses. Mirroring is a type of body language that subconsciously shows attentiveness to the other partner's movements. By matching breaths, turning heads, and moving hands in the same fashion, all motions in the kiss become shared. This ratchets up the sexual tension immensely.
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Step 5
Don't think that kissing is just for the lips. Blow a guy's mind by running the tip of your tongue over the edge of his ear, followed by a soft kiss. Naughty whispers are optional. Men can melt a lady's heart by kissing her palm or inner wrist, but keep the tongue out of the equation.
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Step 6
Graduate to open-mouthed kissing when you're ready to share everything – including testosterone. A University at Albany study says that men move on to open-mouthed kissing to spread more of the “libido-boosting” hormone to their partner. Says Cosmo: “It's not just about his desire – he wants you to be more amorous, too.”
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Step 7
Let your passion loose in order to start a chain reaction that can lead to better climaxes during sex. Dr. Ava Cadell, Ph.D, tells Cosmo that a passionate kiss raises blood pressure and increases heart rate, making it easier to have a mind-blowing orgasm.











Comments
vikki9 said
on 11/5/2009 Is this 'How to' a reprint from Cosmo?