How to Feng Shui: Energize Your Master Bedroom

If you’re looking for The One, found The One, love The One or are recovering from The One and now want a different One – read on. Let’s energize your master bedroom to ensure the ancient Chinese art and science of Feng Shui supports you in relationship.

Instructions

Difficulty: Easy

Things You’ll Need:

• Intention
• Imagination
• New bed
• Matching night stands

1. office.microsoft.com If you are looking for The One, found The One, love The One or are recovering from The One and now want a different One – read on. Let us energize your master bedroom to ensure the Feng Shui supports relationship.
   Oh, yes. Let’s have some clarity as we begin... in relationship, please know that YOU are The Ultimate One. First and foremost, love, love, love yourSelf.
2. Instead of looking at a specific life area of the Feng Shui Bagua, we’re going to look at the master bedroom. Because we spend so much time in this room, it is very important to the overall balance of Chi in your home. Focus here to meet a new lover or add heat to an existing relationship.
3. office.microsoft.com Within this room the single most important piece of furniture is the bed. I cannot stress too strongly how important it is to have a new bed – please do not sleep in a bed you inherited from someone, found at a garage sale or slept in during a previous relationship. You do not want to sleep\+ in a bed energetically imprinted by who-knows-what. Only a new bed and fresh Chi will support you and this relationship. As you look into this room from the door, the most auspicious bed placement is diagonally against the opposite wall. When sitting in bed, you want to be able to see the entry to the room without turning your head more than 45 degrees. For optimal Chi flow, remember to store no thing under the bed (not shoes, wrapping paper, the old VCR...)*. Avoid a great deal of direct sunlight on your bed; it might challenge your ability to sleep at night.
4. Matching nightstands and lamps encourage Chi, especially if you are looking for The One. Be sure you have enough space on each side of the bed to be able to get in comfortably. Leave your things out of their night stand – make space (i.e. opportunity) for them – some massage oil would be OK.
5. office.microsoft.com The bedroom is for rest, relaxation, intimacy, rejuvenation, and fun – the place where we re-create ourSelves. At best a television, FAX, TAD, desk, computer, sewing machine, exercise equipment, etc. are detractors, and if at all possible should be in a different part of your home. If this is not possible, a screen blocking the machinery from view will help. Please cover the TV screen in this room when not in use.
6. Quick tips: If your mate has not yet appeared, leave a drawer empty and some closet space available. This is an adult space so please no Teddy bears, model cars, games, etc. Photos of children, parents, family, and friends should be elsewhere – only images of the two of you, or a romantic representation of the two of you here. This is also not the place for mementos from a previous relationship – that should all be gone by now. Spot and Smokey’s beds should be down the hall – not a wholesome three-some if they sleep in your room. At the end of the day, put laundry in the hamper rather than leaving it on the floor to energetically diminish Chi during the night. If you have a bathroom within your bedroom, please, keep the door closed all the time. Limit live plants to two. Light two candles (red, pink, or white). Sandalwood essential oil is erotic aromatherapy. Arrange cut flowers in a beautiful vase. In this space let love, romance, and fantasy reign. Open to your imagination. Express gratitude.
7. office.microsoft.com Because I am not in your home now, looking at your space and furniture, this information is quite generic. Please use only what resonates with you. When you enter the sacred space of your bedroom, it should feel so, so pleasing – claim that, and claim the perfect relationship!
   In gratitude and with an intention to serve.

Tips & Warnings

• This is an adult space so please no Teddy bears, model cars, games, etc.
• Would you like help finding the life areas in your home? Visit my website to print a free Bagua map, your quick and easy guide to Feng Shui.
• If you are pregnant or think you might be, leave all as-is under the bed to not disturb the Ling Chi preparing for the new baby – then clear all from under the bed after the baby is born.
• Always be mindful when using candles.