How to Confront Your Boss
Just because someone is your boss doesn't mean that they can treat you or your coworkers any way that they like. It also doesn't mean they can perform unethical or immoral activities. Everyone has a responsibility to do what's right, but bosses sometimes seem to think they're above the rest of the crowd. Here are some simple tips on how to confront your boss and create a better working environment.
Instructions
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Ask yourself if the issue is worth the confrontation. Sometimes a matter can seem important to you, but it may not be enough to jeopardize your position in the company. While you may not get fired for bringing an issue to your boss's attention, you may still become the brunt of mistreatment as a result. Is it worth it?
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Get the facts. Are you sure you have all the information you need to confront your boss? Just because it may appear that your boss is performing something unethical doesn't necessarily make it true. Check your sources first to make sure your information is accurate.
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Gather support. Do other employees feel the same way you do, or are you alone? If the issue is important enough to address, you should be able to have a few more people on your side. You don't want to have to confront your boss on your own.
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Prepare yourself. Before confronting your boss, you need to first make sure that you are calm. Your boss will be able to listen to you better if you appear rational. You may also want to prepare some notes just in case you get nervous.
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Exercise tact. Remember that this is your boss you're addressing, so be careful how you approach him or her. Make sure that you remain respectful, since you are speaking to the person who manages your job.
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Tips & Warnings
Be gentle in your approach.
Keep accurate records of your meeting with your boss.
Don't allow your boss to intimidate you.
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Comments
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voliegurl
Dec 14, 2008
I have to remember this one! -
Pamela Wilson-Lipscomb
Dec 08, 2008
Great points! You always need a plan when you are going to confront you boss. -
shadowynight23
Dec 08, 2008
Great advice! Hopefully I won't ever have to confront my boss, but if I do I will know what to do. Thanks! -
hdouglas22
Dec 08, 2008
This is a great article, very helpful. Thanks! -
DLR Writer
Dec 07, 2008
Great tips to dffuse the situation.