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How to Flirt With Girls When You Are a Shy Guy

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By easyrider
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Tageted towards high school and college shy guys who want to know how to flirt with cute girls.

Difficulty: Moderately Easy
Instructions
  1. Step 1

    Crack a joke.

    Girls know when you're trying to talk to them. Crack a joke and show that you have a sense of humor. It doesn't have to make her laugh, but getting a little smile is all you need to get started.

  2. Step 2

    Ask her for help.

    Girls love being asked for advice. You could ask for help choosing a new shirt, help with homework, or help getting "the girl you like" to like you. Use all of the romantic advice she gives you on her!

  3. Step 3

    When she's in a group.

    When a girl is in a group it can be challenging to talk to her. Sometimes it's easier to walk up to the group if you know someone else. Get to know one of the girls she hangs out with. It will be easier to talk to that girl first since you don't like her. Then use her to get into the group and eventually talk to the girl you like.

  4. Step 4

    Don't give her all of your attention.

    Girls (especially cute girls) are used to having guys pay lots of attention to them. Talk to her, but don't give her too many compliments. Talk to her friends and tease her a little. It will make you interesting to her.

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on 6/15/2009 well i dont think 3 will work because if a cute guy got to know my friend first i wouldnt feel special and definatly think you were interested in my friend BAD IDEA BELIVE ME i know you hear this all the time but girls like to feel special and love to be chased and we will chase back. its good to know wich one u r interested in so no mix ups or jealousy. AND THE PART ABOUT BEING CHASED IS A TRUE FACT JUST WALK UP OR FIND A TIME WHEN SHE IS ALONE, (SITTING NEXT TO HER IS A GREAT IDEA!!!!) AND LOOK IN HER EYES AND SMILE AND SAY HI
p.s. style and hair is great if u have good taste inn clothes or cool haircut u will be a girl magnet
-from a true girl

djoki said

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on 1/12/2009 Itis amazing steps but lack the real sense of feelings.......did in the end they fall in a cage....

amandaford said

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on 2/24/2008 Step Three is a great way to get your feet wet. Good points.

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