How to Become a Friend

Friends bring fun, love and support to your life in a special way. To become a friend to someone, you must be loyal and willing to put forth some effort into maintaining the relationship. Learn to become a friend and add a new level of joy to your life.

Instructions

1. Listen attentively to people when they talk. Ask them questions about what they are sharing and show interest in what they have to say.

2. Find some common interests that you share with the person that you are trying to become friends with. Try exploring some of her current hobbies and activities on your own. Plan to do some of these things together.

3. Ask your friend about herself. Remember what she tells you about her likes and dislikes. Check in with her to see how she's doing on any given day.

4. Invite your friend along when you are out with other groups of friends. Let her know that you enjoy her company and that her presence is valuable to you.

5. Spend time nurturing the friendship. A good friend will maintain regular contact. Reach out to the other person so that they know you're interested in the friendship.

6. Acknowledge birthdays and other important dates. If your friend has recently lost a parent or grandparent, send her a card or call her to see if she's okay.

7. Support your friend through rough times. People who are struggling aren't always the most fun to be around, but it's still important to be there when your friend needs you the most. The fun friend will be back soon if she has the support she needs to manage tough situations.