Difficulty: Moderately Easy
Step1
I can see where the guilt would come in if you are dating others and they don't know it, so make it clear. If they are interested in a more committed relationship then make them speak up. If it is not what you want then let that one man go. There's no sense wasting his time as well as yours.
Step2
Also if you dating a few different men then pay for the date here and there so you do not feel that you taking them for a ride. If they are always paying for everything it is a little wrong in my opinion. In this day and age where women want to be seen as equals to men, it is time to do so in every aspect of life and not just where you choose.
Step3
If you are an old fashioned girl then you should not be in this situation, so don't use that as an excuse! This may sound a little brutal but when peoples emotions are getting involved it is not right to play with them. Treat others as you would want to be treated, with respect. Be honest as you would want them to be so with you.
Step4
There is nothing wrong with dating around and finding your soulmate, just don't hurt people along the way. Don't forget that karma may just come back to hit you in the butt!
Comments
AbbyNormal said
on 3/8/2008 Why feel guilty? You haven't done anything wrong.