Difficulty: Moderately Easy
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1. Speak with confidence
This is a HUGE deal when flirting. Knowing what you’re talking about and be certain and secure in your knowledge is very important. Don’t be afraid to set the record straight or get into an argument if you know you’re right. Women respond to male aggression and confidence quite well, as long as you don’t go overboard with it.
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2. Create and use nicknames
This is a neat little trick I picked up from a friend. When you name something, you symbolically express ownership of it. The act of giving the woman your talking to a name is quite powerful. Not only does it establish your dominance in the interaction, it also creates an image the woman you’re talking to is forced to live up to.
For instance, the one I like to use is “If you were a stripper, what would your stripper name be?” and when she responds, say “Hmmm. Actually, you look more like a Martini to me. From now on, you’re name is Martini!” and then continue to call her that. Make a playful joke of it. Soon, she’ll adopt the notion of sexuality that’s attached to the name you gave her. It is very powerful!
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3. Leave her wanting more
You don’t want to exhaust your flirting arsenal right away, so it’s always a good idea to alternate between flirting and non-flirting signals, and keep this going until the end of your interaction.
Constantly flirting comes off as too strong, and can be too hard to keep up in the sense of how much energy you put into the interaction, so alternating is a way to keep the ball rolling without burning out too soon. It also allows you to extend the flirting so that when it comes time to part, she’s still interested in seeing more of you.
Too often, men will allow the energy of the interaction to drop and by the time it’s over, the woman has gotten her fill of you. So always end on a high note and leave her wanting more of you.