How to Turn Men On

Women often think the secret to turning on men is sex appeal. Interestingly enough, the real way to gain a man's attention is to turn him on to who you are and how you make him feel. By paying more attention to attracting his mind, you can make any man putty in your hands.

Instructions

Difficulty: Easy

1. Exude confidence. Men are attracted to women who seem confident and sure of who they are. Even if you feel insecure or unsure of yourself in mixed company, try to show your confident side. It helps to have people around you whom you know well and feel comfortable around, and steer the conversation to topics you feel comfortable with.
2. Pay attention to your grooming. You don't have to be the prettiest, skinniest or best-dressed in the room to turn a man on, but it helps if you have paid attention to your wardrobe, makeup and hairstyle. Never underestimate the importance of a good manicure, as well. Hands are a visible sign of how you take care of yourself.
3. Laugh often. A good sense of humor makes men at ease and makes you appear more approachable. If you are not a joker at heart, you can achieve the same effect by keeping a smile on your face.
4. Be independent. Talk about your career, your home, your life and your hobbies. Women who have their own lives in order and appear ambitious are attractive to men.
5. Flirt a little bit. A woman who is not afraid to make eye contact with a man or gently touch his arm during a conversation makes a man feel confident and special. Focus your attention on the man you are interested in and it is likely he will focus his attention on you.