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Step 1
Wait until everyone at your table is served before you begin eating. This rule of etiquette holds true for eating at banquets, weddings or social occasions as well as in restaurants. If the server tells you that your food is delayed, tell the others in the party to begin eating and not wait for you. If you are at a very large table, most etiquette experts agree that you can begin eating when at least half of the people have been served their food. This etiquette rule holds true for all courses of food.
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Step 2
Pass the food to your right if you are eating "family style", no matter where you're eating. Pass the food to the person on your right without taking any. There are two options for you at this point; wait until the food dish comes back to you before taking a serving or ask the person you've passed it to if you can help yourself. A simple "Do you mind if I take a roll?" is a good way to phrase the question. Although dining etiquette in some European countries pass the food to the left, American etiquette is to pass the food to the right.
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Step 3
Look at the dining table to be sure everyone has been served, if you are the host. Proper etiquette requires your guests to wait for you, as the host, to begin eating before you do. When all of your guests have been seated and served their food, you may begin eating. The proper dining etiquette is simply a matter of respect for others and will help you go far in life.













