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How to Have Confidence Meeting Girls

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Do you get butterflies in your stomach each time you think of meeting a girl? Gaining the confidence to meet girls can be challenging, but with some practice, you can build the self-confidence to talk to girls and increase your circle of friends as well.

From Quick Guide: The Pick-Up Manual
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Difficulty: Moderate
Instructions
  1. Step 1

    Commit to setting a goal to gain the confidence to meet girls. Remember, you really want to meet girls.

  2. Step 2

    Practice and role play with a trusted friend or family member how you plan to approach a girl. This is the best way to get you ready and comfortable meeting girls, as you will learn best by making mistakes. As you learn to stop fumbling your words, you start to gain confidence and overcome your fear of approaching girls.

  3. Step 3

    Dress confidently. Look your best when you get ready to meet girls. How you dress will reflect how you feel and how you will be perceived.

  4. Step 4

    Get some warm-up practice by initiating a conversation with a girl you are relatively comfortable with before you approach the one you really want to meet.

  5. Step 5

    Smile, relax and take a deep breath.

  6. Step 6

    Look for an opportunity to do something for her, such as getting her a drink or a chair to sit on. Introduce yourself and ask if you can be of assistance. Keep your conversation casual and fun.

  7. Step 7

    Repeat the same process at the next opportunity. With a few more practices, you will overcome your fear and gain the confidence you need to meet girls.

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on 7/27/2009 wow this is some good advice given here. it's great. but if u want to take things to the next level, you have to include something called Kino. The word comes from Kinasthetic which meants touch or study of the body. Apply this with any girl, and you're guaranteed to get lucky. To learn more you should visit
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on 2/2/2009 read my article on "How to never attract women and DIE SINGLE" !!

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