Just about every girl has had the butterflies in your stomach feeling over a guy who may not know you're alive. I'm gonna tell you how to get him to notice you without being needy.
The worst thing you can do is seem too available. Men hate this! Remember the goal is for him to notice you, not for you to notice him. As funny as it sounds, start by somewhat ignoring him. You can say hi to him if he says hi first but that's it.
Step2
Now for the second step you will need a prop. You need to find a boy(or two) that you can casually flirt with in front of your crush (just don't use your boss for this). Guys like girls who are wanted by other men. It's just the way they work. Keep this flirting up for a few weeks. If your crush tries to talk to you, be friendly but try to act like you are busy and don't have time to talk. Men LOVE a chase!!!
Step3
When he finally asks you out turn him down the first time. Tell him that you already have plans (even if you don't). If he is really interested he will ask again. Think about it, if you don't get something that you want, doesn't it make you want it 10 time more?
Step4
When he asks you out for the second time say yes. Do not have the first date last more than 2 hours. Always leave him wanting more. Do not make out/fondle/sleep with him on the first date. A small kiss goodnight is ok.
Step5
Now that he has taken the bait you need to reel him in. Do not have sex with him too soon (as hard as this may be). Make sure that he has the right intentions before you sleep with him. If he really likes you he will wait until you are ready. I suggest to wait until you two are officially a couple.
Step6
Have CONFIDENCE! Men DO NOT like women with low self-esteem. If you don't think you are worth dating why should he? Remind yourself of all your good qualities.
Step7
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Tips & Warnings
Remember that you are beautiful and he would be lucky to have you:)
Remember to dress classy not trashy. Showing too much leg may get his attention but it wont get you an invitation to Christmas dinner. Most men prefer a women with class (unless you're in the bedroom:)
on 5/18/2008
Being a teenager does make it harder to apply these rules in your situation. for starters, DO NOT CALL HIM. I realize that we live in 2008 but some traditions are there for a reason. Give him a chase. Even if you can only see him at his place. Only return every other one of his calls and DO NOT BE TOO AVAILABLE. Don't jump to say yes when he asks you to come over. Make him ask you to come over 3 different times before you say yes. Young or old, Men love what they think they can't have. Good Luck:)
on 5/16/2008
i have a question. what were talking about teenagers here...does this apply as well?
and what if you only get to see the guy on weekends at his house?
and what if you already ruined it by asking him for HIS number and talking to HIM first.....
?
:/
Comments
Peachez said
on 7/15/2008 Thanks that was very helpful to me.
Beautygal411 said
on 7/2/2008 I think this is a very important articale that everyone should read, you should columns in magazines!
m2424 said
on 5/18/2008 Being a teenager does make it harder to apply these rules in your situation. for starters, DO NOT CALL HIM. I realize that we live in 2008 but some traditions are there for a reason. Give him a chase. Even if you can only see him at his place. Only return every other one of his calls and DO NOT BE TOO AVAILABLE. Don't jump to say yes when he asks you to come over. Make him ask you to come over 3 different times before you say yes. Young or old, Men love what they think they can't have. Good Luck:)
staandd9291 said
on 5/16/2008 i have a question. what were talking about teenagers here...does this apply as well?
and what if you only get to see the guy on weekends at his house?
and what if you already ruined it by asking him for HIS number and talking to HIM first.....
?
:/
welch said
on 4/21/2008 Great Article And so true!