Difficulty: Moderately Challenging
Things You’ll Need:
Step1
Take a nice chocolate taste and relax as you envision your next relationship endeavor keeping in mind that you must move past the mistakes of the past, failing to do so will only likely wind up as a repeat of the same mistakes otherwise
Step2
When your ready to move on and you are able to figure out what went wrong you’re headed in the right direction. If you haven’t then maybe your not ready and need to take more time for yourself and possibly more introspection first. Failing to do so may involve yourself in only more heartbreak and loss of interest in finding your one true soul, NOT soul mate, your true soul.
Step3
A true soul is the other half of you, the person who makes you feel totally complete as if nothing and no one can make your life worse any longer. There may still be tears and frustration in your world, but the feelings will be less scaring on your psyche and less dragging you downward feelings overall.
Step4
This person will lighten your mood, brighten your darkened world and remove those barriers that were stopping your personal growth, rolling over walls that prevented your moving forward, the bricks rolling off your shoulders as if nothing in the world could ever change your world again.
Step5
You will believe in them and they will believe in you as many follow organized religions in our society today. Guiding you to a more optimistic and free way of thinking within our patriarchal society boundaries. A higher calling maybe, freeing and more positive feelings, definitely but, first you honestly have to believe in the ability to get past the stops, unlocking the barriers and finding your one true soul.
Step6
Otherwise you will only meander into the same abysmal love career you have been guiding yourself through your entire life. The first step is the hardest and letting go of the mind drawing demands that are guiding you forward to the same type of personal relationships will only leave you feeling empty inside.
Step7
Failing to honestly realize that those ideal types of love you have been repeating are only forcing you back into failing where you’re so longing for success. If what you’re getting that you thought you wanted was working wouldn’t you still be in the relationship? Of course you would be. Think of the love you truly want, not the ideal of what your total attraction within society’s goals has in mind for you.
Comments
AbbyNormal said
on 5/25/2008 Great article, especially Step 1.
bizewriter said
on 2/12/2008 Very thoughtful advice...great job!