Step1
Butts
Note: This is not a project for the feint of heart!
They say that women, by nature, can withstand more pain than men, however true that is, the act of loosing one's Male Virginity, can and often does involve some form of pain, physical and possibly mental. Butt the end result carries a feeling of power and completion in a male dominated world where a few things remain tabu that should not be.
Step2
For those of you who dread the idea of visiting their Urologist for fear of the moment of the gloved inserted finger, you might want to stop now. For those of you guys that openly and wide-eyed loved the insertion enough to go home and insert a few fingers into you anus yourself, or better yet ask your girlfriend to insert those fingers for you, read on.
Step3
You are now at the point of no return. You interest is peaked and you do seem to have the little experience and desire to loose that full control all men have and to relinquish your anus to another human being. What do you hope to gain here? You really don't know, but it should just feels right to you, never strained or weird. you have taken the first step of desire and acceptance.
Step4
Friends
Now you will want to select a partner or probe. If you are so inclined to submit to another human being, choose wisely and ask that you retain full control of the situation. If you prefer the inanimate, visit a bookstore and choose a dildo or probe that looks like something you can handle without pain or hesitation. Buy it and brown bag it.
Step5
Set aside some time alone and get in your safe place. A bed is fine but sometimes just the bathroom or in front of a mirror is better. If you have chosen a male friend to help you loose your virginity, ask to see his erect tool, and reselect if he has a Monster ding-dong. You will thank yourself later.
Step6
Talk it over a bit. If you are alone start that conversation in your head, " This is only a science experiment". Go with the flow.
Then begin by lubing your spincter with LOTS of lube or lotion and start by working your tight hole until it loosens and responds to the pleasure. Your sphincter can stretch many many times it's size, so you will not be harming yourself. Relax and take that first insertion. Avoid any thrusting at this time.
Step7
Notice if your erection is increasing or declining.
Your own penis will respond in many different ways during this first experience. Often fear or shame can make one soft. On the other hand the feeling of pleasure and of going beyond the norm can be exciting and wonderful.
Start working your probe or partner gently in and out. This will be a time that you must insist on complete control of the situation.
Step8
Fishing around
If you have arrived at this step, then you have arrived at loosing your male virginity. You have been entered, you have accepted the possession of another and you have embraced the new feeling.
Your own penis should be quite the big guy now, and the feeling of your massaged prostate should be enhancing everything you have ever felt below the belt. We are more than fishing around here!
Step9
Friends
Go all the way, or stop. In any case you may never return to this place you have secretly found again, or you might want to add this sexual experience to every drop of your pants. You will know and you will decide, you and you alone. Don't forget that men for centuries have lived long shared lives with wives and girlfriends, yet have lost 1000 times over, their male virginity in the process. Do be proud that you own your body and that you can choose what you want to feel.
Ejaculating with a full BUTT can enhance and improve a stale relationship. It can't make you gay if you are not, and it can't make you straight if you are not, and it will NEVER ever turn you into a female!! You will possibly love the fact that Mr. Bigshot can shoot even better in the process!
Comments
SNorman said
on 1/30/2008 "lose", "losing", "piqued", thank me later ;)