How to Buy a Girl a Drink

It's become almost a commonplace occurrence at bars around the world: a guy sees a girl that he is interested in and decides to buy her a drink. If the girl accepts, then an opportunity may arise when they can talk to each other and see whether they hit it off or not.

Difficulty: Moderate

Instructions

1. Stand back and approach cautiously. A girl is not going to appreciate being pounced on as soon as she makes her way to the bar. Wait for an appropriate opening and then make your way over to her.

2. Suggest a drink that you know well. If you know that the bar is well-known for a certain type of drink, then let the girl know that it's worth ordering. A drink suggestion shows her that you're confident.

3. Check to make sure that it's okay with her before you buy it. Offer to buy the drink before simply throwing out your money. She may not appreciate the gesture if you force it.

4. Let her approach you afterwards. Just because you bought the drink doesn't mean that she is required to talk to you. If she wants to continue the conversation, then leave the ball in her court.

Tips & Warnings

• Don't buy a girl a drink if you notice a wedding ring or see another guy hanging around. You don't want to get into a throw-down over a drink.
• Don't feel as though you have to buy a girl a drink to pick her up. Women don't need to be bought.