How to Tell a Lover You are Bi-Curious

Sexual exploration is one of the most exciting aspects of a healthy relationship. And, since human sexuality includes such a broad range of areas for couples to experience together, it stands to reason that one partner may wish to try things the other is unaware of. If you are harboring a hidden desire to take a walk on the bi-side, follow these steps to help you tell your lover about it.

Instructions

Difficulty: Challenging

1. Start with a sexy and open discussion about your fantasies. Everyone loves to talk about sexual fantasies, so when you and your lover are having one of those talks, open yourself up and talk about your desires to be with someone of the same gender. If your lover seems to respond positively, then be brave enough to take it to the next level.
2. Be entirely honest with your lover about your bi-curious desires. If you are simply interested in including another partner in the bedroom with the two of you, tell your lover that and see how he feels about it. On the other hand, if you want to have your bi-experience on the side, be clear about that as well.
3. Respect your lover enough to value her opinion. It is entirely possible that your lover will be closed to the idea of allowing you to explore your bi-side. If so, you need to respect her enough to put your fantasy on the shelf for a while. If, however, your lover is amenable to the idea, then, set some ground rules together and follow your dream.
4. Make sure your lover knows that you treasure him and that you value your relationship. It is imperative that you create an environment where experimentation is allowed but your central relationship is not threatened.
5. Free your mind and the rest will follow, as the adage goes. Enjoy the freedom of experimentation and have a healthier relationship because you dare to share your innermost desires with your partner.