Things You'll Need:
- Lubrication
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Step 1
Enact foreplay with your partner. Much as the male penis needs to become erect before performing, you need to lubricate the female vagina with the naturally produced fluids that occur when a female is stimulated. Take the time to engage in kissing and petting before moving onto the nether regions.
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Step 2
Apply lubrication to your hand, her vagina and anus. It never hurts to add a little extra lubrication, as these are very sensitive areas. The last thing you want is your partner to feel uncomfortable upon insertion.
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Step 3
Gently rub the ****oris with your thumb. This should continue the process of foreplay as the female relaxes into the comfort of this sexual act.
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Step 4
Insert your index finger and possibly your middle finger as well into the female's vagina. Depending on the size of your partner's vagina, 1 or 2 fingers may be comfortable. This is something you'll have to assess in the moment. Stay in tune with your partner to see how she is reacting. Continue to rub the ****oris with your thumb as your finger slides in and out of her vagina, simulating intercourse.
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Step 5
Press your pinky against the opening of the female's anus and slowly insert your finger. As your fingers move in and out of the vagina, your pinky should move in and out of her anus. This is called "The Shocker" as many women are "shocked" when a finger is inserted into their anus. Be sure to stay in tune with your partner to make sure she is receptive to this sexual act as it may not be comfortable for everyone.
