Things You'll Need:
- Pen and paper
- Large music selection for choosing songs
- Blank CDs (if using CDs and a stereo system)
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Step 1
Choose music that is appropriate for the different segments of the rehearsal dinner (cocktail hour, dinner and after dinner). The music can change the mood and signal that it is time to move on to the next part of the evening.
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Step 2
Select music that is classic and upbeat for the cocktail hour or for when the hors d'oeuvres will be served. Classic swing or big band music is a good choice: try musicians like Artie Shaw, Benny Goodman, Duke Ellington, Glenn Miller and Count Basie.
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Step 3
Choose music for the dinner portion of the evening that is mellow to create a relaxed atmosphere for dining and conversation. Traditional jazz or classical music might be appropriate. Good choices include Bach, Chopin, Miles Davis, Chet Baker and Louis Armstrong.
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Step 4
Pick songs that are upbeat and fun for post-dinner socializing--anything goes during the after-dinner celebration. Choose songs that are favorites of the bride and groom. Classic rock or modern dance music may liven up the party. Aside from current top-40 tunes, try old favorites from bands like Blondie, ABBA, and INXS. Include some golden oldies from the likes of The Beatles, Elvis, The Supremes and The Four Tops to get all generations out on the dance floor.
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Step 5
Make music lists for the different segments of the evening to share with a live musician or a DJ. If you hired musicians that only play a specific style of music, talk to them about how they can develop a set list to distinguish the different parts of the event.
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Step 6
Compile your music selections on three separate CDs for the different segments of the evening. This is only necessary if you plan to utilize a stereo system instead of a DJ or musician. Make sure you designate a responsible friend or family member as the "DJ" for the evening. This person will be responsible for changing the CD at the appropriate times.
