Decide how much in resources you are going to invest in the date. The factors that will effect that include: how many resources you have, how long you have been dating, how close you are and how much time you have.
Step2
Decide what your options are. Make a list of the realistic ideas.
Step3
Rate the ideas on a scale of 1 to 10, with 1 being the lest desirable (for both of you) and 10 being the most desirable. Eliminate anything that has a 7 or lower.
Step4
Look at the 8's and above. Choose the idea that best fits with you and your significant others lifestyle and open hours.